Sarah: 3 Months

I can hardly believe Sarah is already three months old.  Time seemed to fly before having her…now it feels like we are in warp speed.  I truly have no idea where the first half of this year has gone!

SIZE:  We don’t have an official weigh-in this month since we didn’t have a doctor’s appointment, but according to the not-super-accurate bathroom scale method of weighing myself first, then while holding her and subtracting to find the difference, she is about 12-13 pounds.  She fits comfortably in 3-month clothes, but there’s definitely some room for growth before we’re putting her in 6-month stuff.  We just made her cloth diapers larger this week – 2 in the waist and 5 in the legs (on the smallest snaps).  It’s amazing to look at her newborn photos and see how different she looks and how much she’s grown!

DEVELOPMENT:  Sarah loves to smile – a lot!  Her head and neck are really strong and she’s getting better at tummy time too.  Just this past week she’s started pushing herself up on her arms, but there’s lots of work to do there still.  She does spin herself in circles and scoots on her tummy by kicking her legs.  She is fascinated by her hands and plays with them and tries to put her entire hand in her mouth – both at the same time!  She has also discovered her bottom lip and sucks on that frequently.  Sarah has become Miss Talkative, babbling and cooing and will sometimes even have a “conversation” with us where she “says” something, waits for a response, and then responds.  It’s very cute.  She is also tracking people across the room really well – and not just with her eyes.  Her head whips around now, especially when she hears something she’s interested in.  She did discover how comforting sucking her thumb is while we were taking her 13 week picture.  Aunt Cassie would be so proud!

PERSONALITY:  She’s a pretty happy baby.  She rarely fusses or cries unless she wants something (mainly when she’s hungry).  She does “whine” when she’s tired though.  I actually find it kind of funny to listen to, especially when she’s falling asleep in her car seat in the car as the whines get further and further apart until she’s sleeping.

LIKES:  Many of the things she liked last month, she still enjoys now – her swing and mobile, having her diaper changed, watching the TV…and there are some new things we’ve discovered she likes too.  She loves to lay on the floor and watch the ceiling fan at Grammie & Grandpa’s house (well, pretty much anywhere).  She also likes to play with her burp clothes, especially the ones that have lace or ribbon sewed on the ends.  However, this fascination does not extend to her Taggies blanket, which is much softer and more colorful!

DISLIKES:  I really can say there’s much that Sarah that dislikes.  Other than tummy time, which is still somewhat of a struggle, Sarah is a pretty content baby.  Oh, and getting shots…she’s not a fan of that, but she only cries for about 10-15 seconds and then she’s fine.

EATING:  Eating is going well through the transition of me going back to work and having to pump and do the whole bottle thing during the day.  She is a good eater for John during the day and still eats well at night for me.

SLEEPING:  Like eating, sleeping is going well too.  She is still sleeping through the night with rare exception, going to sleep around 10:00 or 10:30 and waking up around 8:30 or so.  She’s been doing great in the cradle and is all but outgrown it.  We’ll be moving her to a crib in the next couple of weeks, though I’m torn about whether to move her to her own room or set the crib up in ours.  I’m sure she probably doesn’t care all that much, but it’s a big step for Mom!  She often falls asleep on her back at night, but I usually find her rolled onto her side in the morning with her head tilted back (she’s always done this uncomfortable looking position while sleeping).  Naps are still hit or miss and she doesn’t have a real “schedule” yet of when she takes her naps.  Hopefully this month she’ll get into more of a predictable pattern.

OUTINGS/CELEBRATIONS:  Like last month, we had a very busy month!  I went back to work on May 21 and John is at home with her for six weeks.  It’s been an interesting adjustment!  We attended two friends’ birthday parties, celebrating Eleanor’s first birthday (my high school friend’s daughter) in May and JP’s second birthday (from our Bible Study) in June.  She also met much of the Favello extended family at a BBQ for relatives visiting from Utah, including her second cousin who is just a few weeks older.  Sarah also had her first experience away from both Mom and Dad while we celebrated my birthday at Medieval Times (Grammie babysat).  She also spent her first full day with Grammie while Dad worked with Grandpa (a trial run for when Dad goes back to work in July).  This month was also my 30th birthday, which we didn’t do anything special for – just dinner with most of my family.  Sarah and Dad got me a reflector for my photos and a bag of peanut M&Ms (yum!).  This isn’t really much of a celebration, but we experience a fairly minor earthquake yesterday – the first I’ve felt since we’ve lived in this house.  It was a short one and Sarah slept through it all!

I love watching her grow and change from month to month and being able to experience new things with a her…even routine things are so different when you have a baby to bring along!


Sarah: 2 Months

We “celebrated” Sarah’s two-month birthday with a visit to the doctor for her well baby appointment.  She did a great job – was all giggles and smiles until it came time for her shots.  She wasn’t a fan of the oral one and fussed through that, but a pacifier eased her quickly.  The injection went a bit worse with cries that I’ve never heard from her before.  Fortunately, being in my arms soothed her after just a minute or two.

SIZE:  Sarah weighed in at just under 11 pounds this morning (10 lbs., 13.9 oz. to be exact).  She is 22.25 inches long.  Both stats put her between the 25th and 50th percentile for her age.  We graduated to 3-month clothes around 7 weeks, which was bittersweet for me as I moved her newborn clothes to a less used dresser drawer.  Her diapers (exclusively cloth now) are at a 3 in the waist and 6 for the legs.  She definitely doesn’t look “newborn” anymore and I think she looks so big…until I see another baby just a couple of months older!

DEVELOPMENT:  Sarah is all smiles, especially when she is having her diaper changed or just after she eats.  It is the cutest thing to see her huge infant grin when we talk to her.  She’s also holding her head up really well.  We do still get a few head bobbles, but she’s doing better every day.  She’s not pushing up on her arms quite yet since she’s not a big fan of tummy time.  She did discover her tongue and hands around 8 weeks.  She loves to look at her hands and put it up to her tongue, lick her hand, and repeat (think of licking an ice cream cone).  She’s become a lot more aware of her surroundings, particularly who is holding her (mom is her preferred person).

PERSONALITY:  About a week ago, she became very attached to me, which means that she often wants to be held only by me.  Grammie says she’s a total momma’s girl, which is fine with me!  She still prefers to be held and around people than napping by herself in her cradle.  She is overall, a very happy baby and while she doesn’t like missing anything, it can make her fussy because she doesn’t sleep during the day.

LIKES:  Sarah still loves to be held…especially by me.  She enjoys car rides most of the time and has been staying awake for more and more of them.  The swing is a bit hit now and she loves to smile at herself in the mirror that is in the middle of the mobile above her head.  She loves the mobile too, and will just lay in her crib watching the animals go around.  She discovered TV this month.  We find her “watching” over our shoulder or while she’s sitting with us on the couch.  I think she’s interested in the movement on the screen.  Surprisingly, Sarah enjoys having her diaper changed (most of the time) and is still a big fan of bath time.  We think she just likes being naked (she gets that from dad).

DISLIKES:  There’s not a lot that Sarah doesn’t like, but tummy time has been a struggle.  She usually fusses and cried only a few minutes in when I do it with her, though Dad has had some better results.  She also doesn’t like napping during the day unless she is being held.

EATING:  Sarah is eating great!  She typically eats every 3-4 hours, though it can be every 2 hours in the evening (or every 30 minutes during growth spurts!) and she goes about 8 hours while sleeping at night.  We’ve fixed her latch and have virtually no problems with nursing.  She will start eating from a bottle (pumped milk) in just a week when I return to work, so we’ll see if there are any challenges with going between breast and bottle.

SLEEPING:  Nighttime sleeping is fantastic!  She was going to sleep around 9:00 p.m. but has recently transitioned to closer to 11:00 p.m.  She does sleep between 7 and 8 hours, regardless of when she goes to bed.  Last week we also moved her from the pack-n-play napper to the cradle.  She was getting too long for the napper and I wanted to get some use out of the cradle before she has to move to the crib once she starts rolling over.  She does sleep in the swing during the day sometimes since it rocks her better and longer than my arms can handle.  We get mixed results with the swing, though.  She does still sleep with her hands straight above her head, but not as often as she used to.  She’s moved into more of an arms straight out position.

OUTINGS/CELEBRATIONS:  This month was another one filled with trips and celebrations.  Daddy and Grammie both got visits at work where Sarah met all of their co-workers.  The same day Sarah also met most of my co-workers at the retirement reception for my boss.  During my 6-week check up, Sarah met and was adored by Dr. Wang, my OB, who monitored her growth while growing inside me!  Sarah also met all of Grammie’s family at dinner to celebrate Great Aunt Judee’s move to Idaho, and again at Great-Grandpa’s 90th birthday party (where she also met other relatives from South Dakota, Minnesota, Idaho, and here in California).  We visited the Lemon Festival in Upland where we walked around downtown Upland and watched a pie-eating contest while eating corndogs from Hot Dog on a Stick.  Sarah also met our Awana clubbers this month, many of whom where eager to meet her after the anticipation of her arrival.  We finally made it this month to a Build-a-Bear store, where Sarah made her own “Sarah-Bears” to join “Mr. & Mrs. Bears” on our mantle (it’s a family nickname).  She loved the feel of the bear on her cheek.  We ended this month with a very special Mother’s Day, as Sarah was dedicated at our church, with Grammie, Grandpa, Aunt Cassie, Uncle Greg, Theresa, Mark & Ellie, Christina & Kaylee, and Keith in attendance.  After church, we had a lunch reception back at our house, and Sarah gave me her gift of a year subscription to Food Network magazine (both her and Daddy like me to try new recipes).  My mom (Grammie), also gave me a beautiful heart necklace with Sarah’s name on the heart and her birthstone (aquamarine).  We ended the day with the Survivor finale party at Grammie & Grandpa’s house.

Sarah: 1 Month

It’s hard to believe that Sarah is already a month old!  After spending 5 days in the NICU for treatment for a possible infection, Sarah came home and John and I have been adjusting to our new normal with a baby in the house.  It’s been a very challenging month, for sure, with the stress of the NICU stay, feeding challenges, healing from a difficult 30-hour labor and delivery, and the lack of sleep we’ve both been getting, but we love her more than we ever thought we could!

SIZE: Sarah’s 8 pounds (she was 8lbs. 3 oz. at the last doctor’s appointment) and is wearing newborn clothes still, though they’re definitely getting smaller and probably won’t fit much longer.  She had graduated into size 1 diapers when we had her in disposables and her Fuzzibunz are set at 3 on the waist and 7 on the legs.  The legs are going to need to be moved soon though!  I know she’s probably on the smaller side for her age, but I think she looks so big – especially when you compare her with her early photos!

DEVELOPMENT:  She’s been growing like crazy and hit a couple of big developmental milestones this month.  She began lifting her head at about 10 days and her neck muscles keep getting stronger.  The pediatrician even commented on how strong her neck was at her two-week appointment!  She’s also started smiling at us on occasion.  The first time we were sure she was doing it in response to us was on Easter (3.5 weeks) when Grandpa was tickling her face with his beard.

PERSONALITY:  I’ve noticed that Sarah is very independent in that she knows what she wants and wants it now.  She doesn’t have much patience (wonder where that comes from J).  She does love to cuddle and be held.  She also likes to be in the middle of things and doesn’t want to go to sleep and miss anything (“much like her Mom” says Grammie).

LIKES:  Sarah loves to be held, even when she’s sleeping.  And it’s usually on her stomach or side.  She loves to lay on her stomach on the chest of whoever is holding her or on her side with her head hanging slightly over their arm, which gets heavy really quick!  Car rides are mostly good and usually put her to sleep.  She also likes to lay in bed with Dad and is quite content in the Moby as I do chores around the house.  Even though I originally did not want to use a pacifier, she loves hers and it’s a lifesaver when she just wants to suck and isn’t hungry.  Sarah’s a big fan of Grammie – she almost always will settle down and/or go to sleep when Grammie is holding her.  She enjoys being swaddled with blankets (the actual Swaddlers weren’t a big hit) with her arms fairly loose so she has access to her hands.  She also loves bath time.  So far, we’ve had no crying before, during, or after baths!

DISLIKES:  Sarah does not like to be left in a room by herself.  If we try to lay her down in the pack-n-play napper (she’s not a fan of the cradle) after she’s fallen asleep and we’re not in the room, she will usually wake up shortly after.  She does not like being in her car seat, unless she’s asleep or we’re moving.  The one attempt we had at taking a walk with the stroller didn’t go so well.

EATING:  After her stay during the first week with formula supplements in the NICU and a challenge with establishing my supply, feedings have finally started to become regular, usually every 3-4 hours, though we did have a growth spurt during week 3 when she wanted to eat almost constantly for about 8 hours!  She seems to eat well, but her latch has gotten a bit shallow in the past week or so.  Hopefully a visit to the feeding clinic will help remedy that so feedings are pleasant for both her and me.

SLEEPING:  We’ve been pretty lucky when it comes to her sleeping “schedule.”  With the exception of the growth spurt, she sleeps for 2-4 hours between feedings and even slept for 9 hours one night!  She’s usually waking up just once during the night, around 3:00 a.m. to eat after going to sleep between 10:00 p.m. and midnight.  She wakes up again around 5:00 a.m. when Dad leaves for work before going back to sleep again until around 9:00 a.m. when she’s “awake” for the day.  Looks like she’s a night owl like Mom!  She loves to sleep on her back with both of her hands up over her head in a “touchdown” position.  Guess she’s gonna be a football fan – fitting right in!

OUTINGS/CELEBRATIONS:  We’ve been lots of places this month.  We’ve conquered our first shopping trip with both of us to Costco and our first restaurant experience with Grammie and Grandpa at Lucille’s.  Sarah did really well on both trips and I got my first experience at breastfeeding in public just as I finished eating my dinner at Lucille’s.  We also went to Bible Study, though there weren’t very many people there.  Sarah did get to meet the only other girl, Ellie, in our group.  We’ve been to Mom’s Group in Upland a couple of times and a few more shopping trips alone with me.  We celebrated Easter at our house with Grammie, Grandpa, Aunt Cassie, Uncle Greg, and Theresa.  She got a basket from Grammie with some books, clothes, and toys, and a VeggieTales Easter movie from us.  Sarah also went to her first wedding on her one-month birthday for a life-long friend of mine, in Temecula.  She did amazing during the wedding (which was outside in really cold weather) and the reception with the loud music!


Three months later…

Yes, I realize that my poor little blog has been neglected for three months and is in need of a much overdue update (I have pretty good reasons, though…just keep reading)!

I’ll save most of the smaller updates for later posts, but get the big news out there!

I guess I will start with the big news first…John and I are expecting!!!  We shared the good news with immediate family right away when we found out in July and just broke the news to extended family and friends and pretty much the entire Facebook world with this cute little video.  We are due March 15, 2012 and get to find out if we’re having a boy or girl in just three weeks – on October 7.   We’re having a gender reveal party the following Saturday, so you will have to come back after that to find out if Baby Julius will be sporting pink or blue!

Another huge answer to prayer happened right around the same time we found out we were expecting – I got a full-time job offer (and accepted, of course)!  I’m working at a private Christian university as an Administrative Assistant and most of my time has been spent planning and coordinating a retreat for the faculty of the department I work in.  It’s a definite change in environment from my previous position, but I have really enjoyed getting to know everyone that I work with and throughout the University.

We’ve also done some work on the house, including new furniture, converting my office to a guest room (and soon to a nursery) and some landscaping, as well as marking a few more items off on my 101 list and just plain relaxing (growing a baby is a lot of work!).

Stay tuned for more on these other updates as well as Baby Julius’ progress over the next 6 months (and beyond)!